What Drives The Submissive Boi?

A  Willful Submissive Boi

It is interesting to understand what drives a submissive boy. By understanding their needs and feelings a master or partner can much better control them and/or be the one that consistently fulfills their needs, which are both sexual and emotional.  Another point to be made is that submissiveness is not limited to homosexuals, it is equally distributed in the heterosexual population.

Str8 males can be submissive sexually as well in their relationships with females....with the outcome being a mistress and her slave.  Some str8males, who consider themselves to NOT be gay, also venture into being a slave for a male master.  The few "str8" males I have trained are more like bi males, who eventually decide to be one or the other sexually as their sex drive decreases with age, and their sexuality is more emotionally based, rather than performance sex. The "Str8" slave, wants to be forced and punished (as homosexual sex is wrong), and punishment is key to his sexual release.




Submissive in Humiliation Training

But back to the gay submissive, he is driven by the overwhelming desire and need to please another male with everything that they do.  In the extreme examples, normal things become sexual needs.  For example, the extreme submissive may desire or need that the master chose their clothes to wear, what they eat, where they sleep, the more control the better for them.  More usually, submissives limit what control they need to be sexually and emotionally satisfied.  In that way it is like a fetish, in regard to what they need controlled and this can vary over time, just like fetishes....but rarely does the submissive stop needing  to please the master or his partner...this is his driving force.

The best slaves are those that recognize they are 100% passive, those that are 50-50, versatile or switch can be good slaves for the limited times they are feeling submissive.  I seldom take slaves who are 50-50, as eventually they switch to needing to be dominate, which does not work for me.

A submissive slave will feel emotionally the following:

• A strong need to obey a master
• A strong drive to please a master, to make him happy
• The need to be humiliated , as this is very erotic for them 
• A huge void if they feel they have not pleased their master
• They are only happy and content, if they know their master is happy
• A constant worry that their master is not pleased with them
• When convinced that they have finally pleased their master, then and only then, will they feel whole and complete and worthwhile and satisfied emotionally and sexually.
• The next day, they start over concerned about pleasing their master....this never ever stops.

The submissive has a strong emotional need for love from his master, which is not always forthcoming from some masters, who just want to torment and sexually abuse their slave.  In my view this is not a healthy relationship for a slave to be in. So I caution slaves to be careful who they choose as their master.  In my view there is nothing unhealthy about a loving/caring dom and sub relationship, even if at times punishment and pain is experienced by the slave.

A Sub Boi Enjoying Torment

As a submissive boi grows into a better and better slave he will learn how to please his master more and more...this being increasingly submissive. This is at first is expressed as humiliation and then grows into punishment.  In regard to punishment, this means that he will crave more and more punishment to prove his love for his master and to please him more and more...and he is delighted when he knows he is making his master cum by his sacrifices.
Thus a boi will journey from just cum control to spanking, to whipping, to hot wax, from 2 pegs to 24 pegs, etc  growing and changing his limits over time....all to please.  He will become rock hard while training, as it is now very sexually exciting for him.

A good master will always work and act to protect his slave from harm and permanent damage, he will establish on his own "hard limits" a box that he will never venture beyond, even if his boi now wants to go over the limits. In this way the master acts responsibility even if it would be mutually consenting harder punishment.

--Master

Wedgie Boi's Training

Hello everyone I'm Wedgie boi.

 I met my Master on recon. He messaged me and asked if I was interested in being his new online slave. I've always wanted to try it, so I accepted.

We started talking just to get a feel for each other and we got along pretty well, although he wasn't too happy about my community college and my lack of plans for transferring to a 4 year one. Much to my surprise, after learning my major and my interests, he soon found a 4 year school that looks like it has an excellent program for me.  I am planning to visit before the summer is out and see what is possible.  It seems weird that a slave master would give a crap about my school and education?

Well back to the sex slave part. He first trained me when others were around and made me rub my cock through my pants, even when they were in the same room!  Then he ordered me to a bathroom, had me lock the door and made me strip naked.  My body hair is natural and to my surprise he likes me just as I am.

By then my cock was sticking straight out and dripping precum,  and he continued to edge me over and over, but made me hold my cum.....I was going crazy.  Then he dressed me and sent me out of the bathroom to my friends, but not allowing me to get off (having me flush the toilet so others would not wonder).

  Ha! My pants were tenting like crazy, so I quickly sat down and put a jacket on my lap. It is strange, although I could cheat and cum without permission, I would feel so bad and tell him anyways....so I really try hard to obey...only one fuck up so far...and I could not talk to my master for 24 hours...that was my punishment...and it was just horrible and an empty feeling.  I hated disappointing him.

One day I asked him how he felt about wedgies and he said loved them which I was happy to hear because I love them as well.

A Hard Self Wedgie

Wedgie Jack

So master started giving me wedgies during my training. He would make me give myself the biggest wedgie I could give myself and jack to edge multiple times.


One early morning at like 4 am, he ordered me to steal my roommate's undies and wedgie myself with those. I quietly creped into his room while he was asleep in his bed and grabbed  a pair he had tossed on the floor...even though this was the most risky thing I have done, when I talk to Master I feel safe because he actually cares about me.

Start of Wedgie in Roommate's Boxers

The Full Wedgie

He gets me so horny I will almost do anything to cum.  He does respect our agreed limits, as long as he knows them.  Last session while I was wedging myself in my roommate's blue undies, he asked if I wanted to cum (dah).

 I said yes and omg, he said fine jack your cock in the undies and cum in them, and before I reach a count of 10. Well you know what happened ...I came like at 5 and a huge load of sticky smelly cum in my roomie's underwear.  As soon as I had done it, I felt bad, like I had crossed over a line with my roommate's stuff.  Although I had smelled his shorts before and jacked off, I had never ever even thought about that...my master is creative for sure.  But we agreed I could make it a limit in the future.

He saw I was worried about it, and then he said "Well boi, I was going to have you put the wet cum soaked shorts back in his room in his underwear drawer, but I can see you are scared to death, so you may wash them instead, before you put them back". 

Later that night after my master was gone, I placed the cum underwear against my face and edged myself hard again, then fell asleep.  What will he make me do next?

--boi wedgie