Friday, December 28, 2012

Smooth vs Natural--Ask First

 Chaste pup is not really my slave boi, he belongs to his partner who is dominate in their relationship.  He just stopped by to see what on line training was all about. He and his partner are looking for a master to train them both in their roles, but have now decided to search for that face to face, rather than on line.

Regardless, chaste pup's first challenge, as with most slaves, is to become accustomed to punishment....and he learned about it as you read below last night.  The fun of toothpaste to the balls is the surprise at how painful it is as you are sure ur balls will blister (but they do turn red).

Boring
Best
I am sure chaste boi will remember to ask any master he may serve what he wants his body to be like and if it is this master, in the future not to shave his arm pits and pubes...which I find very erotic when intact.  Master wants to control a man, not a preadolescence, pre-pubic  growth young boy. So even though some masters and most slaves love to be shaved due to its humiliation, it is very boring for this master....and not allowed....as chaste boi discovered.
                                              
                                                                                                                                     
     
--Master

Thursday, December 27, 2012

My First Punishment

I would like to introduce myself; I am chaste pup, a new contributor to the blog.

Today was my first punishment with my new Master.  I thought I was doing a good thing by shaving my body last night, but he informed me differently.  Because I did such a heinous act without his permission or authorization, he administered my first punishment today.


I rubbed toothpaste on my balls first, carefully moving it around that Birdlocked chastity device.  I am currently in day 9 of a 14 day lock-up.  It was difficult, but I got a thick layer covering each ball.  Next, I put the remained on my asshole, as instructed.  By the time I pulled my underwear and sweatpants up, I noticed a tingling in my ass.  It felt like my butt was getting hot, but I quickly realized that it was more like a burning sensation.  By the time I got back to my computer to report to Master, it was getting increasingly intense.  I have never done this before, and I had no idea when or if the intensity was going to stop!

As I sat in front of my laptop, the sensation suddenly hit my balls.  The intensity increased steadily over 10 minutes.  It was then that he explained that my pain is his pleasure, and that by pleasing him I would learn that this was well worth the discomfort.  

At last, when he told I could now wipe it off, I was relieved, but when I got back to the bathroom, the pain was even more incredibly intense.  The simultaneous burning and cool menthol were simultaneously uncomfortable and calming.  That is exactly the feeling that slavery gives to me: uncomfortable but calming. Perhaps slavery is a balm for what I am?         

--chaste pup

Tuesday, December 25, 2012

This Slave's View of Punishment


The latest post is again written at masters request so that I might via another first within my relationship with master, to attempt to explain to readers the allure and power of a key component of the master slave relationship: Punishment. I would quickly suggest that either before or after reading the rest of this post that you take a look at masters section on the purpose of punishment. My first  punishment ever, consisted of a spanking using a leather belt of a multitude of twenty to twenty-five strikes upon my backside...and hard.

Here I will paraphrase a section of Master's blog to build upon where Master describes one of the main purposes of punishment being “the testing and providing opportunities for the slave's willingness to submit and for the pleasure of his master” I can honestly say that this statement rings true. For these very reasons, despite the fact that I had committed no sin against Master, I was able to draw a lot out of the session. It was both powerful and highly erotic.


The lashes were an order and I followed that order despite the pain and subsequent red cheeks (which master tells me were both prominent and quite arousing) and allowed me to prove to master the extent to which I am willing to submit to his desires, to surrender myself to his pleasure and his desires. For those who have noticed an emerging theme within my past posts, I find this to be as charging and fulfilling as master himself, secure in the knowledge that I am perfectly safe and master the proverbial updraft, under an eagles wings does indeed care for me.


Whilst I would not yet consider myself one of the 10% of slaves who are masochistic that Master mentions in his own posts (he may have other idea emerging about me) in my opinion the punishment may have been momentarily painful, but it was also mentally and to an extent physically gratifying.

As strange as it may sound to those uninitiated in slave master relationships, I am glad to have been able to undertake this new first and move my relationship with master on that little bit further.

--boi Jase

Monday, December 24, 2012

boi Jase: A white Christmas eve for Jase


Perhaps fitting given the nature of my last post Master has allowed for me to receive my Christmas present a day early and allowed me to cum. Now here is where things have taken an interesting turn. Was the release that I had craved for three days and nights the bliss that I had been anticipating? The short answer to this far too simplified question is both yes and no. The release was bliss and the feeling of peace that accompanies the drowsy bonds of the post climax glow was amazing and far more powerful than any I can remember having for quite some time.
 
But perhaps after three days of thinking of little else the idea of reaching climax had become far more powerful than the act itself. The fact that I was put back on cum control immediately after my present was shall we say 'opened' meant that I was unable to continue relieving myself of three days worth of pent up masculine drive and that in itself is both frustrating and exciting knowing that even when I am allowed release it will be more akin to giving a hungry man water to drink than food to eat. Still I can without hesitation say that Master's gift to me was both appreciated and immensely enjoyable and I find myself already looking forward to the next time I am allowed to indulge.
 
But what is perhaps more interesting at least to me is that I have a sneaking suspicion that the excitement and pride I feel during my days making sure I keep myself from cumming will begin to mean as much to me as the release itself. As I said before I am learning to enjoy the control both emotional and physical that master has over my more base desires and I look forward to the upcoming days of frustration and desire as much as I do the day when I will be allowed brief respite from them.

--boi Jase

Sunday, December 23, 2012

Chasity: Mechanical or Free Will

In the post below, boi jase talked about his learning to be chaste to please his master.  A male's sexual drive is strong, whether he be homosexual, heterosexual, top or bottom. As a master or dom,  the controlling your slave's or sub's ability to cum is really extraordinarily erotic, while the Master has no such limitations.  It is very dominate for the master and very submissive for the slave.

 Virtually all master's control when and if a slave can cum. Some masters never allow their slaves to cum in their presence.  Only when the slave is sent home may he cum by himself, normally while visualizing  the session he has just finished.  Some masters do not allow their slaves to even touch themselves for any reason. 

Other masters will tie their slave down naked face up and edge them over and over, making the slave responsible to tell his master to stop before he cums....and eventually the slave messes up and cums and then the master may just keep wanking him, even though the slave's cock is very very sensitive after ejaculation, as punishment.





Some masters lock their slaves up in a chastity device like a bird cage or cb6000, which prevents the slave from achieving an erection. In this case the master holds the key and unlocks the device only when he wants. Wearing of a chastity device is very humiliating and frustrating for the slave and some slaves really like the experience and it is also is easier for them than self control.


This master always prefers to use free will of the slave to remain chaste, as proof of the slaves' submission and determination to please his master.  This places the responsibility firmly in the slave's hands (pun intended). It also allows the master to have ready access to the slave's cock to edge him over and over to torment him without having to unlock the boi.

 Normally, a healthy 18-35 year old male  will cum about 5-7 times a week.  A few only 3 times.  On the other end of the scale, some will cum 2 or 3 times a day and these slaves can not imagine not being allowed to cum for days or weeks at a time. Boi jase is a boi who was used to cumming more frequently than the norm. In fact, the boi is suffering from swollen congested "blue balls" as we blog!

A key component of training a slave is restricting his cumming in order to increase his sexual desire.  This is why most master will insist that a slave that is going to have a session not be allowed to cum for at least 3-5 days before the meeting. This heightens the sexual erotic nature of the slaves training and makes him hungry to be trained.


--Master

boi Jase: Chastity


Master has instructed me to write another blog entry on a particular aspect of my submission to him, that I remain chaste. I am not to cum under any circumstances without his explicit permission. This has proved difficult so far though it is already getting easier. As I type this it occurs to me that many who read this post may not understand why someone would willingly consent to such a thing and I at one time in my life would have been one of them.

After all I like so many others have enjoyed the freedom to cum as many times a day as I so wished for reasons that were entirely my own be they pure unmitigated horniness or a simple act of boredom on a night, morning or midday with little else to do. For over a decade my sexual relief was mine to command and I am not ashamed to admit that I commanded it on a very frequent basis and the idea of falling asleep without cumming seemed almost laughable to me.


So why then would I agree to stop in the first place? Why would I continue to stop? After all my relationship with master is new and due to its nature there is nothing he could do physically to prevent me from indulging. Yet whilst the idea of cumming may have never left my head over the last few days the idea of actually doing so, despite the ache in my groin and the few extra half hours I lay in bed awake at night, has never once entered my head.


What then has been powerful enough to hold my hands and hips at bay? That as well, is something that may need explaining. It is in a way difficult to articulate, but I suppose it can be summarised as a desire to make another man happy coupled with the, for lack of a better phrase, a warmth-laden tranquillity that seems to come from submitting to, obeying and yes being 'owned' by another man! My chastity is a very physical representation of these feelings.


My desire to please and obey my master's order even when it tares me from a habit and pleasure in which I have indulged for so long is far greater that a carnal desire for release. One provides me with a brief physical and emotional sense of bliss whilst the other in one sense torturous provides a far greater emotional sensation that I do not at this time feel I have adequate words to describe.


As I stated in an earlier post honesty is one of the greatest foundations of my relationship with master and I have resolved to apply that honesty to my posts on this forum; I can not categorically state that I will never succumb to my urges whilst I am with Master, but I can state that I shall put all that I have into keeping my word. I know the consequences of breaking my promice of chastity would not only result in punishment from master; but also a powerful feeling of failure, disappointment and betrayal on my part.

This post and it's attempt is to explain why I intend to remain chaste are, I hope testament to that promise and a contract of trust I have made with my master.

Boi Jase

Saturday, December 22, 2012

Boi Blake Introduction

I am one of the few slaves, Master has who is in his 30s. I was floundering around in life in my 20s when Master found me. The Master/slave relationship that began then has developed into a deep and lasting Master/slave relationship.

From the early beginnings of limit testing and limit expanding, I have grown into a boi that I never thought I could become. It truly is amazing how life allowed me to grow into the boi I am today. I
am so excited to share with my brother slaves/bois and all others who read this blog. Although this is merely a short intro; there will be many more and lengthy posts coming. Thank you Sir for allowing me to share.

My Slaves' Contribution to This Blog

I have decided to allow any of my slaves to post to this blog, so that the readers will have the ability to understand their feelings, concerns and how being a slave impacts them in reality.  The first slave to post is boi Jase, my newest boi.  His post is just below and this post is in response to it. 

To be clear, although master  has editorial control of the blog, each slave is entirely responsible for the content of their own post. ALL readers should feel free to post a comment regarding anything on this blog.  The comment section is not limited and is 100% open to any reader. Just click on the comment box and it will open. Many readers who know me, send me comments via e mail or messenger, but really it is preferred that you post your comment here so all who contribute or follow it have the benefit of your point of view, concerns or observations.

All my slaves are different and are treated differently by me. One size does not fit all. boi Jase has known he is gay from a year or so after puberty, but, like most of us in our early teen years, he did not want to be gay and was in denial or hoping for change.

 Consequently, in his case, he has only recently begun to act on his sexuality with others. Participating in this blog then, is a big deal for him and shift in the path on his journey to acceptance of his sexuality and expression of it. You will read that sense of discovery in his recent post.  I have told him that in my view he is in charge of his own sexual expression and the rate he travels.  He alone needs to decide what and when....it is neither right or wrong...it is what he wants it to be. For example, he is now out to his parents, but I have some slaves who have not taken that step yet.

As a master, I do focus on understanding my slaves...their needs...their concerns...their life. Any slave of mine is going to be able to share his total self, not just the sexual side or get dumped. So I am not a master for the one off slave, hook up slave, get off and leave types, nor the cum and run. Slavery with me is more about a total relationship...which is purposeful 'cause it is a lot more real, than just cyber wanks.  That is why I seldom take a bi slave or slaves who are 18-19...to be my slave requires the forgoing and commitment. At 33, I am done with eye candy twinks!

 I also have a high regard for slaves using the talents and gifts they have and develop in the world to be independent. All most all of my slaves have or are getting university degrees, and if they don't have life goals, they get them soon after serving me or they are gone.

So follow along, and see how we are all not so different, yet are.

boi Jase's Introduction:


Honesty it seems will be a pinnacle of my relationship with sir (or master I'm not sure which rolls of the tongue better yet) and so I can think of no better approach to take on the occasions I take to writing on this blog.



I'm not even how to say or what to say but I suppose I should start the beginning; I'm new to all this. It's a completely new horizon for me... don't get me wrong if I’m being forthwith the idea of being owned by someone has permeated almost every erotic fantasy I can ever remember having and a few days ago I decided to see if I could do something about it and that is how I came across master.



I not 100% on what made him talk to me I suppose I should ask at some point but we began talking and with every word I got listening to a man who seemed to know my reactions before I did, who in just a few short hours seemed to have a firmer grasp upon this long unexplored side of me than I have managed to in years.



We have engaged in a few sessions that I must say I have enjoyed beyond words. The feeling of someone else having such control over me mixed with a sense of security has been beyond enlightening and I suppose I feel like a snowflake teetering upon a coal. Though I know I would like it to continue for as long as he will have me.



I'm not sure how this is all going to go as we are both still very much discovering each other but what I do have an inkling about is that master might indeed be able to open a whole new world to me, one that I have danced around for so long and I'm looking forward to understanding. For now all I feel is an immediate sense of tranquillity and even greater level of excitement and anticipation for what could be.

Thursday, December 20, 2012

Purpose of Slave Punishment



Understanding that some slaves have no understanding of  training and the types of punishment that have been or will be  used to train him, I think I should explain a bit my view.

  • Punishment is not only meted out to a slave because he has fucked up or disobeyed
  • The majority of punishment in most slave/master relationships is used to test the slave's willingness to submit to the master.
  • It provides the slave the opportunity to submit to the master and prove his obedience in order to please him
  • As a master, I always have in place limits and a safe word which I never ever ignore or violate.
  • Some slaves I train believe I might be a sadist as their punishment hurts and does cause pain, but in my case I do not punish unless the slave is hard, with his cock erect. I find a soft cocked slave boring and not sexual in the least.
  • For me punishing an erect slave and edging him between punishment is very erotic and highly sexual
  • I have my own limits in regard to punishment: No blood, No permanent damage to boi
  • Slaves will I am sure describe whatever punishment I met out to them, so you will see quite a variety
  • A slave who likes punishment a lot and gets a sexual high from pain is termed a masochist
  • Masochist slaves usually enjoy my training a lot and come back again and again for more and even want their limits pushed (certainly less than 10% of slaves are masochists). Some even fuck up in order to beget more and more punishment.
  • Yet all slaves should expect some form of physical punishment.
  • Having said that about physical punishment, the actually worst punishment for a slave is separation from his master. If a slave of mine is willfully disobedient I am more likely to punish him by banning him from talking to me or being trained by me for a set number of days. Most slaves find this punishment to be almost unbearable.
--Master

A Slave's Bill of Rights

Someone actually wrote a Bill of Rights for gay slaves that should be accepted by both parties in a slave/master relationship, or at least each item discussed and resolved. I support the content of this bill of rights. Here it is:

 Slave Boy Bill of rights:

1. Every boy has the right to have his body, intellect, and emotions protected by his Dom.

2. Every boy has the right to choose the man whom he serves and to discontinue that service and take his leave without being subjected to physical, mental,or emotional abuse.

3. Every boy has the right to be cared for, disciplined appropriately, and allowed to feel pride in his submission.

4. Every boy has the right to protected sex if he so wishes.

5. Every boy has the right to privacy if he so wishes. No boy can be blackmailed, publicly humiliated, or physically coerced into service without his expressed desire to be so.

6. Every boy has the right to defend himself from physical, sexual, and emotional abuse.

7. Every boy has the right to consent or not to consent to sexual activities.

8. Every boy has the right to seek refuge, counsel, and advice from other subs and Doms without the expectation of sex, money, or any other service in return.

9. Every boy has the right to a physically and emotionally available circle of friends.

10. Every boy has the right to protect his own possessions and finances against intercession, theft, and non-consensual acquisition.

--Master

Master's Understanding of Himself






I am a 33 year old master who loves to control a boi sexually. I want to own him. I want him to desire nothing more than obey and sacrifice for his master. Key to that is his sexual release, or lack of the opportunity to achieve an ejaculation, unless I give him permission in advance. I love to torment him by edging him for long periods of time, then punish him , then edge him again. In this way he learns that I am more important to his happiness than a quick sexual release.

I have several online slaves who are in 20's and  a few in mid 30's, but all are very hungry and horny for sexual control.

 If a slave agrees to share with the readers his feelings and his training and how it goes as our relationship progresses, he is free to post his own comments as well as any pictures he wants that show him in training. Although his training is online, it is quite intense and the emotions and feelings very real. What you read here does apply and have relevance to face to face relationships of master and slave..

I am gay and so are my slaves and all have significant interests beyond just sex.  Those interests are key to a continuing relationship that takes on a more goal view of life and reality. They include University Education and work for most.  Some are very artistic, others very practical. but all have a desire to achieve in life.

I do not as a rule take young (18-19 yo) , str8 or bi slaves, as my experience has been that these guys are unreliable, confused, and have a very hard time making and keeping commitments to me and others.  I find this unacceptable.

Honesty, truth and mutual respect is actually key to the master/slave relationship. Foremost is that the slave trust his master in all aspects of the relationship....as the reader will learn.  Neither master nor slave should ever lie to the other.  As a master I always want the truth from a slave....it always works with me, a slave should never try to figure out what answer I want, and tell me that, rather than the truth.  Lying to this master is a sure way of getting banished or dismissed.

--Master